When it comes to exploring the wild and wonderful world of pleasure and sex, strap-ons are often a key component. After all, they come in a variety of sizes, styles, and shapes, offering a tantalizing way to add delight to your sex life. But with so many options out there, it can be daunting—even overwhelming—to figure out which one is the perfect fit for you. Luckily, we’re here to help! In this article, we’ll provide all the information you need to choose the ideal strap-on for your needs. So fasten your seatbelt, and let’s get exploring!
1. What is a Strap-On?
A strap-on is a sex toy used to provide pleasure to oneself or a partner by simulating certain sexual activities. They are usually made from a harness, and either have a compatible sex toy or a hollow dildo attached. Using a strap-on is a great way to spice up your intimate life, introduce new activities into your relationship, and experiment with roleplaying and BDSM.
Choosing the Perfect Strap-On
When it comes to choosing the perfect strap-on for you, there are a few important factors to consider. From strap-on type and fit to pleasure, here are some of the most important things to look for when selecting a strap-on:
- Strap-On Type: There are many different types of strap-ons available, including hollow strap-ons, harnesses, and strapless strap-ons. Choose the one that suits your needs best.
- Fit: Select a strap-on that fits your body shape perfectly to ensure that it will be comfortable and provide the best stimulation.
- Pleasure: If you want to increase pleasure, make sure to select a strap-on that is designed for maximum stimulation. Experiment with different textures and shapes to find the one that suits your needs best.
Once you have found the perfect strap-on for you, make sure to take your time to explore and find out what kind of activities and sensations you most enjoy. Experimenting is the key to unlocking the ultimate pleasure from your strap-on.
2. Knowing Your Body: Choosing the Right Strap-On
When it comes to choosing a strap-on, there are a lot of variables to consider. You need to know the size and shape of your body, your anatomy, and your own preferences. It is important to make sure that the harness is comfortable to wear and that it fits properly.
- Size: You should measure both your waist and hips to make sure that you choose a strap-on that fits you properly.
- Material: You need to select a material that is comfortable and breathable. There are many materials to choose from such as leather, nylon, and elastic.
- Style: There are many styles of strap-ons such as boxer shorts style, thongs style, and strapless style. Consider what style you prefer and what activities you will be using it for.
- Dildo: Make sure to also choose a dildo that fits the size and shape of your anatomy. Consider things like size, texture, and shape.
It is important to make sure that the strap-on you choose is comfortable and secure. If it is too large or too small, it can cause discomfort and lead to potential injuries. The right strap-on can make your experience more enjoyable and pleasurable. Take some time to research and try on strap-ons to find the perfect one for you.
| Area | Considerations |
|---|---|
| Size | Measure waist and hips |
| Material | Comfortable and breathable |
| Style | Boxer shorts, thong, strapless |
| Dildo | Size, texture, shape |
3. Size Matters: Choosing the Right Length & Diameter
Size is a critical factor for anyone interested in a strap-on. To help you in choosing what’s right for you, we’ll review the length and diameter of the perfect strap-on.
Length
- Short strap-ons are usually less than 8 inches in length. They are perfect for people with a tight fit and for those who are just starting out.
- Medium strap-ons measure from 8 to 12 inches in length. They are ideal for a more comfortable fit or for those who have more experience.
- Long strap-ons usually measure more than 12 inches and are great for those who want to have a deeper and more intense experience.
Diameter
- Thin strap-ons usually measure between 1 and 1.75 inches in diameter. These are perfect for beginners and for those who want a more gentle experience.
- Medium attachments measure between 1.75 and 2.25 inches in diameter. These are ideal for intermediate users who already have some experience.
- Thick strap-ons measure more than 2.25 inches in diameter. These are great for experienced users who are looking for more intense sensations.
4. Materials: Choosing the Right Material
Regardless of your preferences, choosing your perfect strap-on requires some research. Each material has its own unique qualities and benefits, and there are a variety of materials to choose from.
Silicone: This material is cost-effective, hypoallergenic, and non-absorbent. It is also safe for use with water- or silicone-based lubricants, maintains its shape, and can be washing-machine and/or boil-safe. Silicone is a great choice for beginners, as it provides a pleasant feel and good flexibility when shifted around your body.
Leather: Though leather tends to be more expensive than silicone, it is strong and durable and can be easily shaped for a more customized fit. Leather is also easy to repair and can last for many wears and washes. Cleaning this material, however, takes thorough maintenance and lots of vigorous wiping.
Latex: Often referred to as “rubber,” latex does not stretch as much as Silicone and therefore its shape will not change easily. This material is relatively affordable and is especially great for those looking for long-lasting durability. Do note, however, that it is not compatible with water or silicone-based lubricants.
Vinyl: Vinyl is a cheap and synthetic alternative to leather and is known for its matte and glossy appearance. Despite innovations in texture, vinyl is often stiffer than latex and leather, making it difficult to move and shape. In particular, note that some manufacturers might add unpleasant chemical odors to products made of vinyl.
Faux Fur: The fur is attached to a belt or foundation and serves as a component of many strap-on harnesses. It provides extra warmth and cushioning for the wearer but needs extra maintenance in order to keep it clean and hygienic.
Metal: For those who prefer a heavier and firmer feel, metal is the perfect choice. Its shine is appealing, however, many metal toys may be colder than the other materials and may require a warmup to reach body temperature.
Wood: While wood has better durability and structure than other materials, it’s the least common choice when it comes to strap-ons. The finish may also end up affecting the surface of the wood, making it harder to clean.
So, depending on your body, your style, and the circumstances in which you’ll use your strap-on, it’s important to choose the material that is best for you.
5. Tips for a Better Fit
Whether you’re looking to add excitement to your bedroom activities or exploring a more fluid gender identity, admission of a strap-on is an adventurous experience. But with so many strap-on harnesses and dildos to choose from, you may feel overwhelmed. Read on for tips to ensure you pick the perfect one for you!
1. Size Matters: When selecting a strap-on, consider the size of both the harness and the dildo. Is it comfortable to wear? Can it be adjusted for different body shapes and sizes? If you’re new to strap-ons, begin with something smaller and more manageable to get used to the feeling. Conversely, larger people may find they need a larger harness for a comfortable fit and more intense sensation.
2. Comfort Comes First: While there are many available styles, it’s important to find one that’s comfortable to wear. Be sure to consider the materials used, as well as the straps. Does it have breathable fabric? Will it irritate your skin? And consider the placement of the straps: are they positioned in areas that will be comfortable for you and your partner?
3. Type of Harness Matters: There are two main types of harnesses: the classic two-strap style and the jock-style. Both options are suitable for most activities – though the latter is ideal for those seeking more intense pleasure as it provides a snugger fit that lessens movement and increases pleasure.
4. Style and Aesthetics: While looks should never be the deciding factor, it’s important to consider the general aesthetics of a strap-on. Does it have an aesthetic that matches your personal style? Is it easily concealable or does it draw attention? In the end, style helps define your identity and can even make the experience more fun and pleasurable.
5. Quality of the Dildo: The quality of the dildo used in the strap-on is also an important factor to consider. While there are a wide range of materials available, be sure to choose one that’s body-safe and durable. Silicone and metal are two of the higher-quality options – though it’s ultimately up to you to decide which material works best for you.
6. Harness Guide: Picking the Perfect Harness
When shopping for a strap-on, budget is sure to be an important factor. To get the best deal, consider buying online instead of in stores. Straps come in many different material, shape, and size options, so it’s important to choose the best fit for you.
- Material: Choose the best material for you based on comfort, durability, and design. From Vegan-friendly leather to stretchy nylon, there are many different strap-on materials to choose from.
- Shape: Different shapes offer different kinds of support, flexibility, and convenience. From a classic mid-back design to a full coverage all-in-one frame, you can find the right shape for your needs.
- Size: Proper sizing is essential for comfort and stability. Be sure to measure your waist and hips for the most accurate fit.
Finally, consider the accessories you might like to enhance your strap-on experience. Popular add-ons include harness pockets, removable liners, and adjustable buckles.
For more information on finding the perfect strap-on for you, be sure to read reviews and product descriptions on reputable sites. Don’t forget to keep an eye out for discounts or promotions that may be available.
7. Dildo Guide: Picking the Perfect Dildo
1. Know the Anatomy
- Primary attachment: A rigid piece attached to the dildo which attaches the dildo to your body.
- Harness: Used to attach the dildo to you.
- Dildo size: The circumference of the dildo determines which size strap-on to get.
2. Comfort & Quality
- Harness material: Choose a harness that is comfortable and durable.
- Attachment mechanisms: Choose a method of attachment that is secure and easy to use.
3. Design & Shape
- Design: Consider the design and material of the dildo.
- Shape: Choose a dildo shape and size that is comfortable for your body.
4. Gender Presentation
- Gender: Choose a dildo design and shape that reflects your gender identity.
- Flexibility: Consider the flexibility of the dildo and harness.
5. Consider Accessibility
- Accessibility: Think about ways that make using the strap-on easier for those with mobility issues.
- Added features: Look for features such as vibration that can increase pleasure.
Also, read: A Girl’s Guide to Using Dildos for Playful Fun
8. Attachment Guide: Which Attachment to Choose
Choosing the perfect strap-on for you will depend on the type of activities that you plan to use it for. Before making a purchase, assess the following considerations when picking a strap-on to get the most out of your purchase.
- Penis size: If you plan to provide pleasure for a partner, select a strap-on based on the size and shape of the penis the strap-on will replace.
- Organic: If having a penis that is realistic in texture and appearance is important to you, then an organic style strap-on is better.
- Vibration: If you wish to add extra stimulation to your strap-on, consider models that incorporate vibration.
- Shape: Some strap-ons come designed with special curves to reach specific erogenous zones.
- Multi-attachments: Some strap-ons come with interchangeable pieces, allowing you to swap the attachments depending on the user.
- Grinding: There are models that are designed specifically for grinding against the user, for added stimulation.
Take the time to select the best strap-on for you and the activities you plan to use it for. If you have any reservations about your selection, consider purchasing a trial size to ensure that you get the correct size, shape or type.
9. Care & Cleaning: Ensuring Long-Term Quality
Once you’ve determined the type of strap-on that is perfect for your needs, it is essential to take proper care and cleaning measures to ensure its long-term quality.
- Cleanliness and Hygiene of Your Strap-On – Before and after use, it is important to clean your device for both reliability and safety. Start by rinsing it gently with warm water and gentle soap. If needed, use a clean cloth to remove any glue or lint that has collected on it. Once you have wiped it down, use a liquid soap, such as full circle, diluted in warm water to sanitize it. After this, allow it to air dry away from direct sunlight.
- Storing Your Strap-On Properly – It is important to store your strap-on in an organized manner to ensure its proper care and maintenance. Store it in a cool and dry place free of dust, dirt, and direct sunlight. If possible, store it in a protective pouch or in a box to protect it from being squished or damaged.
- Regular Maintenance and Inspections – Conduct regular inspections of your strap-on for any signs of damage or wear and tear. If you notice any tear or deformity in the product, it is important to replace it immediately to avoid any potential harm to yourself or others during use. Additionally, ensure that all the screws and hardware used in the device are properly tightened and lubricated.
By following these simple tips, you can ensure your strap-on is kept in proper condition and continues to serve its purpose for a much longer duration.
10. Conclusion: Making the Right Strap-On Choice
1. Do Your Research: No matter what kind of strap-on you’re interested in, it’s important to do your research. Consider your own preferences, consult online reviews, and ask for advice from store associates. This will help you make an informed decision when it comes to finding the right one.
2. Size Matters: Most importantly, size matters when it comes to choosing a strap-on. If it’s too small or narrow, it’ll be difficult to insert, and if it’s too big, it may be uncomfortable. It’s important to find the size that works best for you.
3. Quality Matters: It’s important not to compromise on quality when looking for a strap-on. Cheap materials and poor construction could result in a breakage mid-session or other issues. Make sure the product is well-crafted and made of high-quality materials.
4. Test It Out: Once you’ve brought your strap-on home, it’s a good idea to test it out in a solo session before you use it with a partner. This will help you get a feel for the way it works and ensure that it’s comfortable before using it.
5. Try Other Accessories: In addition to a strap-on, you may want to try out some accessories such as a strap-on harness, a lubricant, or a dildo to make your experience even more enjoyable.
6. Experiment: It’s important to experiment with different positions, speeds, and patterns to see what works for you. Take your time and explore your options to find out what feels best.
7. Safety First: Be sure to practice safe sex when using a strap-on. Use condoms on any dildos for extra protection and make sure to take the time to clean them after use.
8. Find Support: If you ever feel overwhelmed or confused, it’s important to know that there are support networks available to help. Don’t hesitate to reach out to a friend, partner, or therapist for assistance.
9. Enjoy: Above all else, make sure that you’re having a good time! Having fun is the top priority when using a strap-on, and if it’s not enjoyable, then it’s not worth doing.
10. Conclusion: Choosing the perfect strap-on can be a daunting task, but by considering your own preferences, doing your research, and trying out different sizes and accessories, you can find the perfect one that meets your needs. Once you’ve found it, make sure to make use of it and enjoy yourself!
Now, let’s learn how to use it! Read our article on Mastering the Art of Strap-On: A Guide
Q&A
- What kind of dildo is the best to use with a strap-on?
The best dildo to use with a strap-on is one made from silicone, as it is non-porous, flexible, and body-safe. - Are strap-ons designed for any gender?
Yes, strap-on harnesses and dildos are designed to be used by any gender, and are enjoyed by many. - Can you use a strap-on anywhere?
Yes, you can use a strap-on anywhere that is comfortable for you and safe for both partners. - What size of dildo should I get?
When choosing a dildo size, it is important to choose one that fits your anatomy comfortably and safely. - What type of lubricant should I use with my strap-on?
It is important to use a water-based lubricant when using a strap-on since any lube that contains oil or petroleum can damage the material and cause it to wear out faster. - How often should I replace my strap-on?
It is recommended to replace your strap-on and its attachments (dildo and harness) every year, to ensure optimal performance. - Does a strap-on provide extra stimulation?
Yes, strap-ons can provide extra stimulation for both the wearer and the partner, depending on the type of dildo and harness used. - Are strap-ons safe to use?
Yes, strap-ons are safe to use as long as you use body-safe materials and follow all safety and hygiene guidelines. - Is strap-on use difficult to learn?
No, with a little practice and a lot of communication, anyone can learn how to use a strap-on for pleasurable and enjoyable experiences. - Are there any special considerations when using a strap-on?
The most important consideration for using a strap-on is safety and hygiene, so make sure to use lubricant, practice good hygiene, and take your time to get comfortable with the equipment.
Now that you have the tools to make the best strap-on choice for you, all that’s left is to go out and do it! Experiment, have fun, and feel confident in knowing you have made the best decision for your unique body and your perfect pleasure. Love is a journey—we hope you enjoy every step.
